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Wednesday, February 28, 2007
Asterix comics
After spending a very pleasant (and I must say delicious) shabbos meal with the Gouraries of Crown Heights, it came to light that the Asterixes were NOT as previously requested by a few members of this blog left to reside at 35 Observatory, but are in fact at 1101 Lincoln Place. Hmmmm....
When questioned, Avremi did in fact admit that he found them in MY room, which further proves my point that these are not the originals of Asterix-Tintin fame....
Meanwhile, we wish Levi, Yocheved ,Yehuda, Avremi and Dini many happy hours of reading :-)
(Avremi is just lucky that my kids don´t understand English....)
PS--Big Kudos go to Avremi and Dini:Thanks for always being ready to host us out-of-towners at the drop of a hat, we are really grateful for your hospitality!
When questioned, Avremi did in fact admit that he found them in MY room, which further proves my point that these are not the originals of Asterix-Tintin fame....
Meanwhile, we wish Levi, Yocheved ,Yehuda, Avremi and Dini many happy hours of reading :-)
(Avremi is just lucky that my kids don´t understand English....)
PS--Big Kudos go to Avremi and Dini:Thanks for always being ready to host us out-of-towners at the drop of a hat, we are really grateful for your hospitality!
Tuesday, February 27, 2007
Tuesday, February 20, 2007
Newsflash
Please look to the right for a listing of family dates. Kudos to our most senior sibling/cousin for engineering this contribution. Please email Yossi at yosselg@yahoo.com with your updated info.
Stan & Pete
Stan of "Stan & Pete" puts out a wonderful weekly newsletter in SA. I met him at the Feinblum Wedding. He posted a pic of me on his website (above) and wrote the following.
Last week was the Feinblum / Finkel wedding, which was the night after Miracle Drive, which was ‘Tukka’ a miracle……….and the Lubavitch spirit was like ‘Amollikke Yoren’ and Avremi Gourarie, helped with a few songs, and the Marathan Man (Johnny Birin) was awesome…Avremi is the son of Rabbi and Mrs Winnie Gourarie, Nephew of Rabbi Kurstag & Mrs Batya Kurstag…..(Rosh Beth –Din)….he does a fortune of work in New York, dealing only in religious music, and I remember him from days gone by…….The Kallah’s father Mark feinblum, is of course the Man from Moishies butchery in the Shtetl (Glenhazel)…and hails from Pretoria where his parents still stay………his Late Father In Law, Jackie Drutman was well known to me, and we did a lot of business together……….and in fact Stan & Pete bought the Kosher butcher from him (Hadar’s) and Moishies is what is left of it……..Yislaaaaaaaaaaaik, that was a long time ago……The wedding had tremendous Yiddisher ‘chain’ (spirit)……..
Memories.....
Sunday, February 18, 2007
Announcing a new service!
Hi Family:
Here's my modest contribution to the cause:
I am writing a program that will maintain a list of all occasions in the family. All you need to do is e-mail me your birthdays, anniversaries etc and I will post a list of occasions for all to see (I guess Avremi the computer expert will show me how to put up a PDF for all to see) and update it from time to time. All I need is the description and date - Jewish OR lehavdil lemisporom. You do not have to supply with both.
Now, here's the picky catch: I will only accept the dates in an Excel spreadsheet that I will soon supply to all of you who's e-mail addresses I have.
Coming attractions will include alerts on the blog, etc.
Here's my modest contribution to the cause:
I am writing a program that will maintain a list of all occasions in the family. All you need to do is e-mail me your birthdays, anniversaries etc and I will post a list of occasions for all to see (I guess Avremi the computer expert will show me how to put up a PDF for all to see) and update it from time to time. All I need is the description and date - Jewish OR lehavdil lemisporom. You do not have to supply with both.
Now, here's the picky catch: I will only accept the dates in an Excel spreadsheet that I will soon supply to all of you who's e-mail addresses I have.
Coming attractions will include alerts on the blog, etc.
Update from us
so we are joining the jetsetting club and will be arriving in NY iy"H Friday a.m. We=Levi, Chana,Chonyale and Moussiale.Occassion is my sister-in-law´s wedding. Thank-you to Rochel leah and Dovid who will be loaning us their apartment while they are in EY! and we can´t wait to see the rest of the new york contigent. I will be staying for a mere 5 days and Levi and Moussiale for a week. Chonyale will staying about another 3 weeks to be able to go to school---we hope it will be a good experience for him. As I am returning from my travels a few days before purim, I thought we would have a smallish seuda---however, people are inviting themselves!!! (because this year purim is sunday, so we will finally be able to come to you....:-)) so does anyone have any recipes for food that cooks itself???
Thursday, February 15, 2007
Mazel Tov Dina
I will probaly get into trouble for this post but...
We all want to wish Dina a huge MAZEL TOV! for her 40th birthday which is this Sunday Lamed Adar
Shnas hatzlocho begur
We all want to wish Dina a huge MAZEL TOV! for her 40th birthday which is this Sunday Lamed Adar
Shnas hatzlocho begur
Mazel Tov and Memories
On Behalf of everyone down under we wish Avremi and Dini a big Mazel Tiov on their anniversarry. May you be blessed 'mit alle Berochos begur'.
How many years?
I remember the snow storm the day after.
I left to NYon Sun
the wedding was mon
i was supposed to leave back on tuesday to arrive in sydney on thursday to take care of my school in the 2nd week of the new year.
The plane did not leave b/c of the snow. Took a whole day to get back to get crown heights -up all night getting the insurance companty to buy me a new ticket on quantas as united was full and left from newark the next day
got into Sydney on Fri morning and went striaght to teach
Arounf 1:00pm i felt dizzy and went home and conked out in bed till Sunday morning (with short breaks for davening and eating)
But it was all worth it b/c it was an amazing wedding which i still remebber so well
so mazel tov again
Michaeli
How many years?
I remember the snow storm the day after.
I left to NYon Sun
the wedding was mon
i was supposed to leave back on tuesday to arrive in sydney on thursday to take care of my school in the 2nd week of the new year.
The plane did not leave b/c of the snow. Took a whole day to get back to get crown heights -up all night getting the insurance companty to buy me a new ticket on quantas as united was full and left from newark the next day
got into Sydney on Fri morning and went striaght to teach
Arounf 1:00pm i felt dizzy and went home and conked out in bed till Sunday morning (with short breaks for davening and eating)
But it was all worth it b/c it was an amazing wedding which i still remebber so well
so mazel tov again
Michaeli
our anniversary....
Hi all. I probably should've posted earlier to give you ample time to call us with all your good wishes. Fortunately for you, we will be accepting late wishes (and gifts, if you so desire:). Tis our wedding anniversary. Truthfully my dear hubby's not a fan of all the phone calls on special days (maybe that's just birthdays), but if you comment here, on his dear blog, I'm sure you'll make him very happy. Thanking you all in advance for your prompt attention to this matter.....oh, and new posts would make him even happier, right Avremele??
Tuesday, February 13, 2007
Jet Setting
Firstly Thanks you Avremi for keeping us updated while you were in South Africa, it reminded me of all the times we would go visit and read all the archie, tintin and all the other treasures Bubby would keep. we are G-d willing going to Israel tomorrow (weather permitting). we need all the prayers that we don't get snowed in. We are leaving Getzy with his bubby Rubashkin (President steet). we would like to thank Hindy and Yitzchok in advance for looking after Getzy. I'm not sure if we will have computer acess in Israel but we will try and keep you posted. So long. The Rubashkins
Monday, February 12, 2007
Homeward Bound
Well, all good things must come to an end, and I'm excited to be returning home. Not much to report. Did not do too much Sunday. I went with Ima shopping at the Hypermarket. Who can remember Raleigh St., at the intersecting corner where OK Bazaars once stood. There would always be some blind musician, disadvantaged, out of luck, love and most everything else, strumming his guitar in a uniquely South African style singing township standards hoping that the few worthless coins he collected in his cup (You remember, black on the inside up to its rim and the outside painted metallic white) would buy him his meager rations of mielie and pap. I have fond memories of just that because, for me, the music was special. Akin to the American blues of old, they sang mournfully with tremendous soul, longing and tremendous raw talent - often strumming on a guitar missing strings. Imagine my excitement as we left the parking lot to enter the Hypermarket when I spotted such a scene from afar. The same blind guy, white walking stick by his side, same guitar, same cup at his feet. I could not wait to get a little closer to soak up a little of what was. But as I neared and could make out what he was singing, I was disappointed to find that this old chap was belting out American pop songs. Huh?! Whasup??!!! I was pissed. I want the old South Africa back. Like before Soweteans had TV where they now watch American Idol. I wanted to slap this guy in the face. I wanted to tell him that if he wanted my rands, he's going to have to sing some stuff that would make Madiba proud. Oh well.
Late Sunday afternoon we went to DJ's for dinner. Much like Famous Pita on Coney, but a lot cleaner. Famous still has the best Felafel balls and schwarma though. Of note was the girl behind the counter. Her name was 'Tzedoka'. No S--t. Picture the scene (actually happened) when Aba needed more ice. He would shout across three tables, "Oh Tzedoka, more ice please". Turns out she's from some village and her name is really Charity.
Later on I went to Torah Academy for mincha. I found the place depressing. Not sure why.
This morning, Monday, I went to the office with Aba. Hung out there a little and then Seneq, ...I mean Mishek took me home. (That was for you, Dini.) Then I took some photos of the house - the kids wanted to get a taste. I rummaged through some old stuff. Wondering if I should take back my old rubber stamp. The one that has Avremi Gourarie, 35 Observatory Ave etc. Probably useless now. I found a file of old correspondence. My buddy Robin Shifrin is going to get quite a kick out of reading old letters he wrote to me. I tried to appropriate some old photos of Ima back in the day. There's an envelope labeled "Not for album" and knew there has got to be some great stuff in it. The Bnei Akiva era (Or was it Shomer Hatzair?, I forget). But Ima would have none of it. No photos for me. Oh well.
I'm glad I made the trip.
Gotta go and stuff all that dried fruit in my suitcase...
Later...
Late Sunday afternoon we went to DJ's for dinner. Much like Famous Pita on Coney, but a lot cleaner. Famous still has the best Felafel balls and schwarma though. Of note was the girl behind the counter. Her name was 'Tzedoka'. No S--t. Picture the scene (actually happened) when Aba needed more ice. He would shout across three tables, "Oh Tzedoka, more ice please". Turns out she's from some village and her name is really Charity.
Later on I went to Torah Academy for mincha. I found the place depressing. Not sure why.
This morning, Monday, I went to the office with Aba. Hung out there a little and then Seneq, ...I mean Mishek took me home. (That was for you, Dini.) Then I took some photos of the house - the kids wanted to get a taste. I rummaged through some old stuff. Wondering if I should take back my old rubber stamp. The one that has Avremi Gourarie, 35 Observatory Ave etc. Probably useless now. I found a file of old correspondence. My buddy Robin Shifrin is going to get quite a kick out of reading old letters he wrote to me. I tried to appropriate some old photos of Ima back in the day. There's an envelope labeled "Not for album" and knew there has got to be some great stuff in it. The Bnei Akiva era (Or was it Shomer Hatzair?, I forget). But Ima would have none of it. No photos for me. Oh well.
I'm glad I made the trip.
Gotta go and stuff all that dried fruit in my suitcase...
Later...
Sunday, February 11, 2007
Happy (belated) birthday Mushkale Gourarie!
Shnas Hatzlacha begu"r! Wow, Mushkale is ka"h NINETEEN years old......
The Big Bash..
Well, it's the morning after and the 'shochedike' are just about done with the big cleanup.
But first, Shabbos. This Observatory minyan, as many of you already know, is unique as it is strange. Who would have thunk that Julian Blackman (raishis smichas bla bla bla), Egon Schoeman (Ben Achar Ben of Rabbi Frietz Shudelmacher, the schohet of Frankfurt am Main), Michael Karp, (former disciple of Rabbi Shakovitzky, late of Gateshead's elite), Uncle Moshe and Aba would come together to form a minyan. Here's the kicker. Aba seems to like this minyan way more than he did the Lubavitcher one on Harrow. My theory. It's a serious minyan made up of Jews who take their davening and learning seriously. So shammas man gets up after musaf to proclaim that 'this weeks brocha is sponsored by Rabbi Gourarie'. (BTW, since the brocha refers mostly to the blessing made on pickled herring, they should be called 'herrings', not 'brochas'). Off we traipse to the brocha room. Aba is introduced to speak. The group is respectful, sleepy. Not a word was understood by anyone. Believe me. Heavy chassidus. One thought quickly gave way to tens of tangential detours in rapid fire fashion. In Yinglish. I said not a word when we got home. Ima berated Aba for talking over their heads and he made amends by 'Shala Shudos' with a more coherent, simple yet cogent display of Chassidus mastery.
On to Motzei Shabbos. 'Twas nice to see the mix of Lubavitchers and locals together for this event. The spread looked and tasted great. Aba spoke again (his third for the day), Uncle Moshe spoke and Akiva Wagner (The Rosh Yeshiva) spoke. It was a warm, enjoyable event. A fun time was had by all. I will, IY'H post pics upon my return to first world 1.5mbps territory.
Other than that, just chillin'.
BTW, does any one know that Aba likes to mix appletiser with coke and Ima sometimes mixes milk and coke?
Later
But first, Shabbos. This Observatory minyan, as many of you already know, is unique as it is strange. Who would have thunk that Julian Blackman (raishis smichas bla bla bla), Egon Schoeman (Ben Achar Ben of Rabbi Frietz Shudelmacher, the schohet of Frankfurt am Main), Michael Karp, (former disciple of Rabbi Shakovitzky, late of Gateshead's elite), Uncle Moshe and Aba would come together to form a minyan. Here's the kicker. Aba seems to like this minyan way more than he did the Lubavitcher one on Harrow. My theory. It's a serious minyan made up of Jews who take their davening and learning seriously. So shammas man gets up after musaf to proclaim that 'this weeks brocha is sponsored by Rabbi Gourarie'. (BTW, since the brocha refers mostly to the blessing made on pickled herring, they should be called 'herrings', not 'brochas'). Off we traipse to the brocha room. Aba is introduced to speak. The group is respectful, sleepy. Not a word was understood by anyone. Believe me. Heavy chassidus. One thought quickly gave way to tens of tangential detours in rapid fire fashion. In Yinglish. I said not a word when we got home. Ima berated Aba for talking over their heads and he made amends by 'Shala Shudos' with a more coherent, simple yet cogent display of Chassidus mastery.
On to Motzei Shabbos. 'Twas nice to see the mix of Lubavitchers and locals together for this event. The spread looked and tasted great. Aba spoke again (his third for the day), Uncle Moshe spoke and Akiva Wagner (The Rosh Yeshiva) spoke. It was a warm, enjoyable event. A fun time was had by all. I will, IY'H post pics upon my return to first world 1.5mbps territory.
Other than that, just chillin'.
BTW, does any one know that Aba likes to mix appletiser with coke and Ima sometimes mixes milk and coke?
Later
Friday, February 09, 2007
The Mysterious Avremi G...
SKF writing on Esti's Site
The CIC Parliamentary Dinner and Democracy in Action conferences have come and gone, with only the bills (oy are there a lot of bills!) to pay and the accolades to collect. The highlights of the events have been captured on film and next week I will post a link that will allow you a direct glimpse into Canada's largest non-partisan political event.
We achieved many firsts including a record number of parliamentarians participating in the various events (the Dinner alone had all Party leaders and 243/308 MPs from the House of Commons plus another 37 Senators) and over 125 meetings with MPs on the Hill during the course of the Hill lobbying component of the program.
For many, however, the greatest "buzz" centred around the mysterious musician Avremi G, who transformed the usually dull and de riguer national anthem into a musical happening. In an event that builds a mood on each component, there was universal acknowledgement on the part of the organizers that Avremi G was a key to the success - and added a note of class very early on in the program that established the desired tone for the rest of the evening. [Get it? tone, key, note...]
All of this to say, it was wonderful to have Avremi at the event - not least because finally, a Gourarie can confirm that I actually do something for a living and perhaps can even give a vague description of what it is that I do!
We are excited that the Gourarie Seniors are finally on line... thanks again to Avremi (do you detect a theme emerging here?). We look forward to posts from South Africa and direct emails to Ottawa...are you listening Shvigaro?
Anyway, a gutten Shabbosh to you all. Look forward to writing again next week.
SKF
The CIC Parliamentary Dinner and Democracy in Action conferences have come and gone, with only the bills (oy are there a lot of bills!) to pay and the accolades to collect. The highlights of the events have been captured on film and next week I will post a link that will allow you a direct glimpse into Canada's largest non-partisan political event.
We achieved many firsts including a record number of parliamentarians participating in the various events (the Dinner alone had all Party leaders and 243/308 MPs from the House of Commons plus another 37 Senators) and over 125 meetings with MPs on the Hill during the course of the Hill lobbying component of the program.
For many, however, the greatest "buzz" centred around the mysterious musician Avremi G, who transformed the usually dull and de riguer national anthem into a musical happening. In an event that builds a mood on each component, there was universal acknowledgement on the part of the organizers that Avremi G was a key to the success - and added a note of class very early on in the program that established the desired tone for the rest of the evening. [Get it? tone, key, note...]
All of this to say, it was wonderful to have Avremi at the event - not least because finally, a Gourarie can confirm that I actually do something for a living and perhaps can even give a vague description of what it is that I do!
We are excited that the Gourarie Seniors are finally on line... thanks again to Avremi (do you detect a theme emerging here?). We look forward to posts from South Africa and direct emails to Ottawa...are you listening Shvigaro?
Anyway, a gutten Shabbosh to you all. Look forward to writing again next week.
SKF
Greetings From S.A.
Well, I'm here, and Ima's computer has been revived. Her Yahoo account was cancelled due to inactivity. Her new email address is bobbeint@gmail.com. I used Gmail over Yahoo for 2 reasons. 1. Yahoo sucks. 2. One logs into blogger with a Gmail account so there is less to manage. Yossi, instead of setting up webmail, I configured outlook to handle her email. 2 reasons. 1. Webmail takes long to load, especially on dial up. 2. Too many steps to get to your mail (find the website, enter logins yada yada). Outlook is automated and simple....and quite fast even on dial up
Other than that, after 12 years this is one heck of a trip down memory lane. The sights sounds and smells. Kudos to Ima for hoarding all my junk. Like the metal container that housed a Mathematical set that I used (bought at CNA) for geometry 25 years ago. Nothing in the container, mind you - just the rectangular zach neatly arranged in my top drawer. Or the never opened package of '72 Super Ring 8 Shot Caps' used in a Purim gun circa the stone age. Or the metal can that I labeled "Savings". It's empty.
Later.
Other than that, after 12 years this is one heck of a trip down memory lane. The sights sounds and smells. Kudos to Ima for hoarding all my junk. Like the metal container that housed a Mathematical set that I used (bought at CNA) for geometry 25 years ago. Nothing in the container, mind you - just the rectangular zach neatly arranged in my top drawer. Or the never opened package of '72 Super Ring 8 Shot Caps' used in a Purim gun circa the stone age. Or the metal can that I labeled "Savings". It's empty.
Later.
Thursday, February 08, 2007
I am Writing Again
Mty thoughts for this week (As Avremi is not home to do this task)
Self Esteem and Humility
Self Esteem is one of the buzz words of modern society. We are taught that a healthy self image is crucial for human development and the foundation of healthy relationships. Jewish teaching on the other hand emphasises humility. The Talmud teaches that G-d will not connect with someone who is haughty and arrogant. Can humility and self esteem co exist?
Humility and self esteem are concepts that are often misunderstood. It is important to understand the proper definition of these ideas:
Humility
Humility is not about feeling small or inferior to others. Moses was the most humble of all men, yet he was the greatest prophet – a fact that he was aware of, and one that he himself was instructed to record in the Torah. True humility means to be fully aware of one’s strengths, abilities and talents, while at the same time not to feel superior to others. To be humble means to recognise that strengths or aptitude are G-d given. We have a responsibility to utilise them appropriately to their fullest potential, but they don’t make us better than other people. The humble person truly respects and makes space for others, whoever they may be.
Self Esteem
Self esteem is not a feeling of greatness or perfection. True self esteem is about feeling comfortable and secure with ourselves. It is about accepting ourselves totally with all of our strengths and weaknesses and committing to nurture those strengths and improve on the weaknesses.
People who are insecure with their own identity will do one of two things. Either they will withdraw from others with an intense feeling of inferiority (false humility). Or they might invest tremendous effort to protect themselves with a false feeling of superiority and arrogance. These are the people that need to prove themselves constantly, by showing off there achievements and denying any shortcomings. These are the people who are always talking, giving little room for others. They feel threatened and are always on the defensive.
False humility (the inferiority complex) and an inflated ego and arrogance (superiority complex) both come from the lack of self esteem – a feeling of discomfort and insecurity with one self.
True humility can only exist with a healthy self esteem and self image. You can only make space for others and respect them, if you are totally comfortable with yourself.
Self Esteem and Humility
Self Esteem is one of the buzz words of modern society. We are taught that a healthy self image is crucial for human development and the foundation of healthy relationships. Jewish teaching on the other hand emphasises humility. The Talmud teaches that G-d will not connect with someone who is haughty and arrogant. Can humility and self esteem co exist?
Humility and self esteem are concepts that are often misunderstood. It is important to understand the proper definition of these ideas:
Humility
Humility is not about feeling small or inferior to others. Moses was the most humble of all men, yet he was the greatest prophet – a fact that he was aware of, and one that he himself was instructed to record in the Torah. True humility means to be fully aware of one’s strengths, abilities and talents, while at the same time not to feel superior to others. To be humble means to recognise that strengths or aptitude are G-d given. We have a responsibility to utilise them appropriately to their fullest potential, but they don’t make us better than other people. The humble person truly respects and makes space for others, whoever they may be.
Self Esteem
Self esteem is not a feeling of greatness or perfection. True self esteem is about feeling comfortable and secure with ourselves. It is about accepting ourselves totally with all of our strengths and weaknesses and committing to nurture those strengths and improve on the weaknesses.
People who are insecure with their own identity will do one of two things. Either they will withdraw from others with an intense feeling of inferiority (false humility). Or they might invest tremendous effort to protect themselves with a false feeling of superiority and arrogance. These are the people that need to prove themselves constantly, by showing off there achievements and denying any shortcomings. These are the people who are always talking, giving little room for others. They feel threatened and are always on the defensive.
False humility (the inferiority complex) and an inflated ego and arrogance (superiority complex) both come from the lack of self esteem – a feeling of discomfort and insecurity with one self.
True humility can only exist with a healthy self esteem and self image. You can only make space for others and respect them, if you are totally comfortable with yourself.
Tuesday, February 06, 2007
Yitzchok & Hindy - Mazel Tov on your anniversary!
Hi All:
We all wish Yitzchok and Hindy Mazel Tov on their engagement anniversary. Wow! a whole year has flown by! May you have loads of naches from one another tomid kol hayomim!
We all wish Yitzchok and Hindy Mazel Tov on their engagement anniversary. Wow! a whole year has flown by! May you have loads of naches from one another tomid kol hayomim!
Sunday, February 04, 2007
Michael's Contribution....
The following is Michael Katz's contribution that he authored as a comment (to the post where we welcomed him). I am sure as he gets more comfortable with this medium, he will use the 'Create Post' to author new threads.
'Thanks everyone for the welcome. It is going to take a bit of time for me to familiarize myself with the names of your children. Here is a quick catch-up of mine.Shai (full name is Shimon Yonah, named for my late father) is 18 and graduating Yeshiva Toras Chaim this year and then, im yirtzeh haShem, heading for Bais Yisroel in Neve Ya'akov (conveniently located near my mother-in-law and one of my brothers-in-law) so, Israeli cousins, look out for him.Naomi Malka is 16 and in 10th grade at Bays Yakov of Miami. She recently took the leading role in the Bays Yakov production of A Place to Call Home (based on the book, Family for a While) and, I am told since I wasn't allowed to attend, she was amazing.Shifra Rena is 14 and in 8th grade at Bays Yakov. She is, in many ways, just like my late mother, Shayna. She has her features if not her coloring and she likes to bake.When I get more familiar with this blogging business I will post some pictures.It would help if you list names with photographs. '
'Thanks everyone for the welcome. It is going to take a bit of time for me to familiarize myself with the names of your children. Here is a quick catch-up of mine.Shai (full name is Shimon Yonah, named for my late father) is 18 and graduating Yeshiva Toras Chaim this year and then, im yirtzeh haShem, heading for Bais Yisroel in Neve Ya'akov (conveniently located near my mother-in-law and one of my brothers-in-law) so, Israeli cousins, look out for him.Naomi Malka is 16 and in 10th grade at Bays Yakov of Miami. She recently took the leading role in the Bays Yakov production of A Place to Call Home (based on the book, Family for a While) and, I am told since I wasn't allowed to attend, she was amazing.Shifra Rena is 14 and in 8th grade at Bays Yakov. She is, in many ways, just like my late mother, Shayna. She has her features if not her coloring and she likes to bake.When I get more familiar with this blogging business I will post some pictures.It would help if you list names with photographs. '
Saturday, February 03, 2007
Scholars
Hi All:
I'm just testing the ability to upload pics via Picasa. Here are two learned gentlemen having a scholarly discussion in the Holy Land.
A Gut Voch!
I'm just testing the ability to upload pics via Picasa. Here are two learned gentlemen having a scholarly discussion in the Holy Land.
A Gut Voch!
Esrog Jam Taken to Another Level
SKF reporting on Esti's page...
We read with interest Reb Michoel's post regarding esrog jam. Before you feel too bucked with yourself, Rabbi Gourarie, let me report that thanks to Chana's inspiration, six months ago I delved into the inyan of an esrog as a segulah for "zara chaya ve'kayama" and using all sorts of mystical kavonos, we prepared esrog jam with the intention of giving it to a particular woman who has been struggling in this regard...
When we called her on Erev Shabbos to bring her the jam, her husband was astounded that we would have had this plan in the works for almost six months...for on that day (yesterday) they received a report on a particular surgical procedure she had undergone (that we were not aware of) that concluded she could now conceive normally. We will keep you posted on the results, but are confident Hashem Yisborach will show chesed to this couple and bless them with children.
A gutte voch to all.
We read with interest Reb Michoel's post regarding esrog jam. Before you feel too bucked with yourself, Rabbi Gourarie, let me report that thanks to Chana's inspiration, six months ago I delved into the inyan of an esrog as a segulah for "zara chaya ve'kayama" and using all sorts of mystical kavonos, we prepared esrog jam with the intention of giving it to a particular woman who has been struggling in this regard...
When we called her on Erev Shabbos to bring her the jam, her husband was astounded that we would have had this plan in the works for almost six months...for on that day (yesterday) they received a report on a particular surgical procedure she had undergone (that we were not aware of) that concluded she could now conceive normally. We will keep you posted on the results, but are confident Hashem Yisborach will show chesed to this couple and bless them with children.
A gutte voch to all.
I did it
I wish to report that my first time esrog jam for tu bishvat was a major sucsess
i had the whole shule and guests taste it and it all 'went down very well' i hope iyh all the segulos zol mekuyem vern
michaeli
i had the whole shule and guests taste it and it all 'went down very well' i hope iyh all the segulos zol mekuyem vern
michaeli
Friday, February 02, 2007
New Contributor...
I'd like to welcome our cousin Michael Katz from Florida to our blog. I hope you enjoy your stay and look forward to reading your many postings.
Wednesday, January 31, 2007
List & Links
Feel free to submit your lists of favorite books, movies, peoples, animals or inanimate objects. I've started with my own. (Scroll Right)
Tuesday, January 30, 2007
Back from the Holy Land!
Hi
Family:
Family:
We are all back from our visit to Eretz Yisroel and I wanted to share some pics with you. Enjoy!
(Note, of course, the picture of the 4 Yirmeyahus tzu langer yohren - We thought of you, Yirmeye Labkowski!)
Esti Masters Another Task she Thought She Could Not Do!!
Many thanks to Avremi who walked me through..... the change from the old format to the new!!
Avremi knew that I would need a little hand holding with this...his words. How many of you are out there who can do it on their own? Those with computer degrees do not , I repeat do not count!!
Once again I would like to take this opportunity to thank Avremi for starting this blog,I think that we can all say it has become quite an integral part of our lives keeping us in touch with our nearest and dearest! A BIG YASHER KOACH!! To all of you out there who benefit and do not blog please start contributing....blog or at the very least comment........ this blog depends on all of us!!
Avremi knew that I would need a little hand holding with this...his words. How many of you are out there who can do it on their own? Those with computer degrees do not , I repeat do not count!!
Once again I would like to take this opportunity to thank Avremi for starting this blog,I think that we can all say it has become quite an integral part of our lives keeping us in touch with our nearest and dearest! A BIG YASHER KOACH!! To all of you out there who benefit and do not blog please start contributing....blog or at the very least comment........ this blog depends on all of us!!
Blogger Update
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Monday, January 29, 2007
Sunday, January 28, 2007
Wednesday, January 24, 2007
Hindy in Israel (or maybe Rochel Leah)
Maybe anyone in Israel for the Rosenfeld wedding in Israel can help me out here. I have been trying to call R. Eliyahu Rosenfeld from Brazil and no one answers the telephone nos he gave me(the American line and Israeli). I need to speak to him ASAP, so can you please tell him to call me on my American line?
Happy Birthday Mendele!!!
Mendele turns ka"h ELEVEN today (Hay Shvat)!!! In two years is his Bar-mitzva.....the tefillin are already ordered:-)
Monday, January 22, 2007
Mazel Tov Fogels
Since I am the first in the whole family to wake up on Daled Shevat (credit to the time zone) I am taking this opportunity to wish Esti and Shimon Fogel a huge Mazel Tov on their wedding anniversary.
Zol zein mit alle berochos begur
Michaeli
Zol zein mit alle berochos begur
Michaeli
Sunday, January 21, 2007
Me too. I´m baaack!
Hi Guys! Just got back today and I was so excited to read all the new posts and comments (WHO IS 770?)I will add my comments to all the latest soon....
We had a fantastic time and are very proud of ourselves that we managed to vacation IN Brazil. The first week was spent touring Curitiba which is a very pretty city with gorgeous parks and we then went to a "Xacara" (pronounced Shacara) for 5 days which in essence is a small farm with cows, horses, ducks, goats, sheep, cats, dogs, fruit trees and a lake + a swimming pool---really beautiful.The kids had a blast (they even milked the cow) and we are all nicely suntanned. The only glitch was that Shmuly didn´t realize that the cows MOO doesn´t sound like a moo at all and he walked around the whole time saying "Ich hob Meira di MOO"!! The kids of course loved spending time with their aunt and uncle and cousins.
and we are now back to the grind.....
We had a fantastic time and are very proud of ourselves that we managed to vacation IN Brazil. The first week was spent touring Curitiba which is a very pretty city with gorgeous parks and we then went to a "Xacara" (pronounced Shacara) for 5 days which in essence is a small farm with cows, horses, ducks, goats, sheep, cats, dogs, fruit trees and a lake + a swimming pool---really beautiful.The kids had a blast (they even milked the cow) and we are all nicely suntanned. The only glitch was that Shmuly didn´t realize that the cows MOO doesn´t sound like a moo at all and he walked around the whole time saying "Ich hob Meira di MOO"!! The kids of course loved spending time with their aunt and uncle and cousins.
and we are now back to the grind.....
Thursday, January 18, 2007
Hello I am back
Wow everyone take it easy
i am a real regular at commenting on this blog
but i was away in melbourne trying to chill out and have a vacation in our beatutifull summer while everyone else freezes in you hemesphere
so i did not check email or read blogs
anyway i had a great time
Shimon I am very insulted - where is my invite to your dinner
by the way i am still waiting for your c/v so i can get you brought out to Australia
Anyway everyone have a really good shabbos
michaeli
i am a real regular at commenting on this blog
but i was away in melbourne trying to chill out and have a vacation in our beatutifull summer while everyone else freezes in you hemesphere
so i did not check email or read blogs
anyway i had a great time
Shimon I am very insulted - where is my invite to your dinner
by the way i am still waiting for your c/v so i can get you brought out to Australia
Anyway everyone have a really good shabbos
michaeli
Enjoy
Here are some pictures from Getzy's birthday party in school, and of couse Miss Hindy doing some computer work.
GREETINGS FROM THE HOLY LAND
I see Rochel Leah is keeping you all posted about our whereabaouts in the world.
Well Sunday we decided that we would really like to take a visit to Israel. Well within 24 hours Yitzchok had our flight book for Tuesday. Talk about last minute planning:)!! B"H we managed to get out of the house and board the plane right before the gates were closing. We are now enjoying the beautiful weather and trying to get over our jetlag. In about 2 hours we will be off to pick up the rest of the Gourarie crew (father, mother, Yirmiyahu and Moishie).
Goodbye till next time!
Hindy
I see Rochel Leah is keeping you all posted about our whereabaouts in the world.
Well Sunday we decided that we would really like to take a visit to Israel. Well within 24 hours Yitzchok had our flight book for Tuesday. Talk about last minute planning:)!! B"H we managed to get out of the house and board the plane right before the gates were closing. We are now enjoying the beautiful weather and trying to get over our jetlag. In about 2 hours we will be off to pick up the rest of the Gourarie crew (father, mother, Yirmiyahu and Moishie).
Goodbye till next time!
Hindy
Wednesday, January 17, 2007
winter is finally here!
It is amazing how cold it is outside. on my way to Getzy's school my fingers almost fell off. Getzy's birthday celebrations lasted about four days. We spent Shabbos with our Rubashkin grandparents and had a Melava Malka in Getzy's honor. On Sunday we had a Birthday supper with the Friedman cousins. Finally on tuesday we had a Birthday party with his class, we are all birthdayed out.
Hindy and Yitzchok decided to go to Israel on sunday, found a space on the plane (they had an open ticket) ,and left moday morning. My parents and Moishie are on their way today, and we are holding up the fort here. In a week from tomorrow my sisters are coming to spend winter vacation with us , we are so excited . We are G-d willing going to Israel in three weeks, Yippee. If anyone has any tips for us please reply. anyway I am off to pick up Getzy. since I am not that computer literate I will post some birthday pictures when Dovid comes home.
Hindy and Yitzchok decided to go to Israel on sunday, found a space on the plane (they had an open ticket) ,and left moday morning. My parents and Moishie are on their way today, and we are holding up the fort here. In a week from tomorrow my sisters are coming to spend winter vacation with us , we are so excited . We are G-d willing going to Israel in three weeks, Yippee. If anyone has any tips for us please reply. anyway I am off to pick up Getzy. since I am not that computer literate I will post some birthday pictures when Dovid comes home.
Tuesday, January 16, 2007
This 'N That
Shimon, both Michoeli and Chana are on vacation - go easy. And Yossi, well, don’t expect him to post anytime soon.
Here's what’s happening (And soon to happen). I went to LA last week where I played the Duchman/Altein wedding. Got into a fight with the party planner by the name of L.R. Doubt she'd recommend me anytime soon. She didn’t like my response to her directive at the Chupah, 'Play now', to wish I responded 'When it’s the correct and appropriate time to play, I'll be sure to start'. She threw up her arms in disgust and in a bitchy LA twang screamed, 'who’s this guy?!' This set the tone the tone for a fun evening. I was very impressed with Mendel Duchman. He runs this wonderful children’s' minyan - I was blown away. I stayed at my good friends the Maryles's. I met a wonderful and delightful woman by the name of Pepper Jay. She doesn't believe that NASA actually landed on the moon. Interestingly, she had never read Deception Point. I sent her a copy as soon as I retuned to NY. 'Twas a very interesting evening. The Lubavitch Shul in LA sucks big time. It's a bad imitation of 770 on a bad day. Not a soul greeted me. (Probably because I wasn't sporting a nose ring and a Rastafarian hairdo).
I am producing my first show. On March 10 R.C.C.S. is sponsoring an evening of 'Erev Chabad'. A concert of Chabad music introduced by speakers and such. I'm bringing in a violin player from Israel, Mordechai Brodsky. We're renting a Baby Grand, which will be played by Gershon Wachtel. An upright bass player and a drummer will accompany. Should be fun. Wish me luck.
Oh, today I received the invitation to the CIC dinner, which I hope to attend. I'll post a full report on these pages afterward. (Shimon, can I take pictures?).
Other than that, please visit Chabad News Online for your weekly News telecast
Here's what’s happening (And soon to happen). I went to LA last week where I played the Duchman/Altein wedding. Got into a fight with the party planner by the name of L.R. Doubt she'd recommend me anytime soon. She didn’t like my response to her directive at the Chupah, 'Play now', to wish I responded 'When it’s the correct and appropriate time to play, I'll be sure to start'. She threw up her arms in disgust and in a bitchy LA twang screamed, 'who’s this guy?!' This set the tone the tone for a fun evening. I was very impressed with Mendel Duchman. He runs this wonderful children’s' minyan - I was blown away. I stayed at my good friends the Maryles's. I met a wonderful and delightful woman by the name of Pepper Jay. She doesn't believe that NASA actually landed on the moon. Interestingly, she had never read Deception Point. I sent her a copy as soon as I retuned to NY. 'Twas a very interesting evening. The Lubavitch Shul in LA sucks big time. It's a bad imitation of 770 on a bad day. Not a soul greeted me. (Probably because I wasn't sporting a nose ring and a Rastafarian hairdo).
I am producing my first show. On March 10 R.C.C.S. is sponsoring an evening of 'Erev Chabad'. A concert of Chabad music introduced by speakers and such. I'm bringing in a violin player from Israel, Mordechai Brodsky. We're renting a Baby Grand, which will be played by Gershon Wachtel. An upright bass player and a drummer will accompany. Should be fun. Wish me luck.
Oh, today I received the invitation to the CIC dinner, which I hope to attend. I'll post a full report on these pages afterward. (Shimon, can I take pictures?).
Other than that, please visit Chabad News Online for your weekly News telecast
SKF Can't Get His Blog Act Together...But Neither Can You!!!
Shimon...Still using Esti's Blog Space...
I know all of you are busy...very, very busy. But surely you can take a few minutes every couple of days to add a comment to the blog. Of course, being a recent convert, I am over-zealous; however, now that I appreciate the value of Avremi G's efforts, I faithfully check every day and alas, no new news...
Okay, it's true. At first, I was only checking to see if there were any witty posts related to my contributions. But now, I truly look for new posts that will open a little window on what you are all doing. So I now stand with the Music Man. Either you start demonstrating some consistent support for this Blog, or I am joining Avremi in a boycott.
Hope to see your posts tomorrow.
I know all of you are busy...very, very busy. But surely you can take a few minutes every couple of days to add a comment to the blog. Of course, being a recent convert, I am over-zealous; however, now that I appreciate the value of Avremi G's efforts, I faithfully check every day and alas, no new news...
Okay, it's true. At first, I was only checking to see if there were any witty posts related to my contributions. But now, I truly look for new posts that will open a little window on what you are all doing. So I now stand with the Music Man. Either you start demonstrating some consistent support for this Blog, or I am joining Avremi in a boycott.
Hope to see your posts tomorrow.
Sunday, January 14, 2007
Ottawa Update
SKF Still Piggybacking on Esti's Blog...
So it's 4:30 am and I'm waiting for Moishele to get up so that he can make his flight back to Toronto. He just had an off Shabbos and his mother missed him so much, I had to lobby for special reshus for him to come home for Shabbos. Everything went well and s/he had a lovely Shabbos together. Unfortunately, his flight back Motzei Shabbos was over-sold and he was bumped. I don't know if he was more excited to have another few hours at home or whether his pachad about Rabbi Oster's reaction trumped his excitement. I think it will be more than a few weeks before he can again receive a weekend pass.
On to other news...we are looking forward to a visit from a special guest. Yes, Avremi G is planning a quick trip to attend the CIC's Parliamentary Dinner. In his honour, we are pulling out all the stops, including a special presentation from Asi Cohen - Israel's foremost comedian. If you want to check out his sense of humour, go to You Tube and in the search field type in "interview", "priest", "Israel" and "comedian". I will leave live reporting from the event to Avremi.
I'm back from the airport and Moishele is safely tucked into seat 1-A. So if all goes well, Rabbi Oster will not have noticed he did not get back last night as agreed. Oy the pressure...
Not much else is doing on the Ottawa front. But just to authenticate that I am really writing from Ottawa, let me tell all of you grasshoppers that under Esti's steady and able supervision, we are just about Pesach cleaned! We are not quite at the stage of eating in the basement...that will come into effect immediately after Purim (which is a shockingly only 7 weeks away!). Truth be told, I don't even know why we are cleaning for Pesach, since ever the counter-culturalists, we are going to Australia for yontif!
Okay, now there is really nothing left for me to say. I still have another hour left before I can daven, so I will take advantage of the quiet, head downstairs, grab a ma'amar from the Alter Rebbe, adjust myself in a (really the only) comfortable chair...and chap a drimmel for 30 minutes ;-) Hope you are all well.
So it's 4:30 am and I'm waiting for Moishele to get up so that he can make his flight back to Toronto. He just had an off Shabbos and his mother missed him so much, I had to lobby for special reshus for him to come home for Shabbos. Everything went well and s/he had a lovely Shabbos together. Unfortunately, his flight back Motzei Shabbos was over-sold and he was bumped. I don't know if he was more excited to have another few hours at home or whether his pachad about Rabbi Oster's reaction trumped his excitement. I think it will be more than a few weeks before he can again receive a weekend pass.
On to other news...we are looking forward to a visit from a special guest. Yes, Avremi G is planning a quick trip to attend the CIC's Parliamentary Dinner. In his honour, we are pulling out all the stops, including a special presentation from Asi Cohen - Israel's foremost comedian. If you want to check out his sense of humour, go to You Tube and in the search field type in "interview", "priest", "Israel" and "comedian". I will leave live reporting from the event to Avremi.
I'm back from the airport and Moishele is safely tucked into seat 1-A. So if all goes well, Rabbi Oster will not have noticed he did not get back last night as agreed. Oy the pressure...
Not much else is doing on the Ottawa front. But just to authenticate that I am really writing from Ottawa, let me tell all of you grasshoppers that under Esti's steady and able supervision, we are just about Pesach cleaned! We are not quite at the stage of eating in the basement...that will come into effect immediately after Purim (which is a shockingly only 7 weeks away!). Truth be told, I don't even know why we are cleaning for Pesach, since ever the counter-culturalists, we are going to Australia for yontif!
Okay, now there is really nothing left for me to say. I still have another hour left before I can daven, so I will take advantage of the quiet, head downstairs, grab a ma'amar from the Alter Rebbe, adjust myself in a (really the only) comfortable chair...and chap a drimmel for 30 minutes ;-) Hope you are all well.
Wednesday, January 10, 2007
Hello
Hey everybody. I have not contributed in a while, although I check the blog everyday. Getzy and Baby Hindy really keep me on my toes. This sunday G-d willing is Getzy's second birthday. He loves telling anybody who will listen that he is turning two (that is, while he is holding up one finger, we are working on that). If anyone in the metropolitan area is ever looking for something to do at night ( other than sleep) Dovid and I just went ice skating in Bryant Park (42nd and 6th ave.) we had a really great time. Anyway have a great day.
Tuesday, January 09, 2007
Mazel tov!
Leah (Kesselman) Sollosh gave birth to a little boy, on Friday. Her oldest , Nosson, is nearly 3.
(Separate post, to make this site look busier:)
(Separate post, to make this site look busier:)
Congratulations Esti....
In response to Shimon's request (who responded to Esti's!), that any/1 please post, here I am. I'd like to extend my conratulations to Esti on her first toastmaster "toast". She'll have to explain to inquiring minds exactly what that be, but here's to you Esti...CHEERS!!!! I'm proud of you!
Sunday, January 07, 2007
Shimon' Update
Shimon continuing to blog on Esti's account...
As is her wont immediately after completing preliminary Brochos etc..., Esti went to the family blog only to find that no one had bothered to contribute a post since last Wednesday. Anxious to keep the momentum going, she prevailed upon me to jot down a word or two to move things along.
So, we a re recovering from Shabbos - during which we were tried on many fronts. First, our (other) world famous Chazzan was away for Shabbos, so every Yossele wannabe competed for top honours...The general consensus was that chalk on a blackboard is infinetly more preferrable to semi-literate Carelbach afficianados singing Kedusha to the tune of Uncle Moishy...
Worse, in deferrance to RL's desire to populate our Shabbos table with guests (like the traditional Malochim aren't enough) we again capitulated and entertained at lunch. The shul president (who is plotting his own impeachment) no less. Well...lunch turned into shalosh seudos...then into melave malka... Why do we do this? We don't even get a tax deduction for such mesiras nefesh!
Now, alas, we are back to the mundane world of the week. On tap today: decipher Esti's to-do list; offer support to RL who is doing school assignments well beyond my ken; organize the Parliamentary Dinner and Policy Conference, which is quickly approaching on February 5-6 (BTW, Avremi and Yossi: please email your mailing addresses and complimentary VIP invitations will be forwarded forthwith). Avremi, Asi Cohen (the priest interview) is doing a skit for the event. For those of you who don't know Israel's foremost comedian (after Ehud Olmert), you can check him out by going to You Tube and type in the key words "priest", "interview", "Israel", "comedy" in the search field. He is going to do an interview with Canada's Foreign Minister. I will either get a promotion (to exactly what, I don't know...) or fired! (That Shabbos hosting may come in handy...Bina Foundation "head's up").
Okay...now that I have convinced you all that I have precious little to do, I better head off and do it. Hope this stimulates greater minds to add a post or Postville...whatever. A gutte voch!
As is her wont immediately after completing preliminary Brochos etc..., Esti went to the family blog only to find that no one had bothered to contribute a post since last Wednesday. Anxious to keep the momentum going, she prevailed upon me to jot down a word or two to move things along.
So, we a re recovering from Shabbos - during which we were tried on many fronts. First, our (other) world famous Chazzan was away for Shabbos, so every Yossele wannabe competed for top honours...The general consensus was that chalk on a blackboard is infinetly more preferrable to semi-literate Carelbach afficianados singing Kedusha to the tune of Uncle Moishy...
Worse, in deferrance to RL's desire to populate our Shabbos table with guests (like the traditional Malochim aren't enough) we again capitulated and entertained at lunch. The shul president (who is plotting his own impeachment) no less. Well...lunch turned into shalosh seudos...then into melave malka... Why do we do this? We don't even get a tax deduction for such mesiras nefesh!
Now, alas, we are back to the mundane world of the week. On tap today: decipher Esti's to-do list; offer support to RL who is doing school assignments well beyond my ken; organize the Parliamentary Dinner and Policy Conference, which is quickly approaching on February 5-6 (BTW, Avremi and Yossi: please email your mailing addresses and complimentary VIP invitations will be forwarded forthwith). Avremi, Asi Cohen (the priest interview) is doing a skit for the event. For those of you who don't know Israel's foremost comedian (after Ehud Olmert), you can check him out by going to You Tube and type in the key words "priest", "interview", "Israel", "comedy" in the search field. He is going to do an interview with Canada's Foreign Minister. I will either get a promotion (to exactly what, I don't know...) or fired! (That Shabbos hosting may come in handy...Bina Foundation "head's up").
Okay...now that I have convinced you all that I have precious little to do, I better head off and do it. Hope this stimulates greater minds to add a post or Postville...whatever. A gutte voch!
Wednesday, January 03, 2007
We´re off!
We are Iy"h going to Curitiba in the state of Parana tomorrow!Its a six hour drive...Levi´s brother just moved there three months ago and we are going lekovod vacation/his sons opshernish. We´ll be back in a couple of weeks. I will try to find a computer to check this blog ´cause I love the shmoozing........
Sunday, December 31, 2006
"Hey, I'm famous"
Look who made it into the ULY Chinese Auction Booklet...the above quote is his!
http://www.yttl.org/auction/itemdetail.cfm?ProductID=184
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http://www.yttl.org/auction/itemdetail.cfm?ProductID=184
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Thursday, December 28, 2006
The visitng Grandpa
Hello everybody. I have not sighned on to the blog in a really long time ( shame on me). Things have really been hectic here. my pops came to visit us, although I think he really came exclusively for his favorite grandson Getzy. we really had a great time Getzy was on seventh heaven when his Zeidy came to pick him up from school. All the grownups went out to dinner on Monday night. we were well entertained by hindy who seemed to be a bit overtired. other then that Baby Hindy is just getting over her Bronchitis and we are just recuperating from all the Chanuka partying. Hope you all have a wonderful Shabbat. So long. Rochel Leah
P.S. here is an uploaded picture of Baby Hindy
Wednesday, December 27, 2006
Chanukah Wars
Click On Me After you read the Article.
From 'The Jewish Week'.....
Jeremy Dauber, a young professor of Yiddish at Columbia University, received a somewhat unusual e-mail request one day last week from a writer at “The Daily Show,” Jon Stewart’s popular Comedy Central “news” program.The question: what’s a Yiddish phrase one would use to wish a friend a Happy Chanukah, preferably a long and complicated set of words?Dauber responded with “a lichtegeh and freilichin Chanukah,” meaning “a bright and joyous Chanukah.”The writer thanked him and suggested Dauber watch the end of the program that night, when Stewart segues into “The Colbert Report” by chatting briefly with host Stephen Colbert.Sure enough, on the program a stern-faced Colbert said he wanted to address “the Chanukah wars,” spoofing “the Christmas wars” waged by conservative TV personalities who insist that political correctness is preventing people from wishing each other a Merry Christmas in public during this holiday season.Colbert said he wanted to acknowledge the war led by Judah Maccabee against Antiochus in 160 BCE. “That’s what Chanukah means to me,” he said, adding: “And when I hear Wal-Mart greeters wishing me a Happy Holiday instead of a lichtegeh and freilichin Chanukah, it makes me so angry.”As he and Stewart burst into laughter, along with the audience, Colbert repeated the Yiddish phrase for good measure, noting: “Is that so hard?”Said Stewart: “It puts a smile on my pupik.”And no doubt on Dauber’s as well, always happy to spread the message that Yiddish is alive and well.
From 'The Jewish Week'.....
Jeremy Dauber, a young professor of Yiddish at Columbia University, received a somewhat unusual e-mail request one day last week from a writer at “The Daily Show,” Jon Stewart’s popular Comedy Central “news” program.The question: what’s a Yiddish phrase one would use to wish a friend a Happy Chanukah, preferably a long and complicated set of words?Dauber responded with “a lichtegeh and freilichin Chanukah,” meaning “a bright and joyous Chanukah.”The writer thanked him and suggested Dauber watch the end of the program that night, when Stewart segues into “The Colbert Report” by chatting briefly with host Stephen Colbert.Sure enough, on the program a stern-faced Colbert said he wanted to address “the Chanukah wars,” spoofing “the Christmas wars” waged by conservative TV personalities who insist that political correctness is preventing people from wishing each other a Merry Christmas in public during this holiday season.Colbert said he wanted to acknowledge the war led by Judah Maccabee against Antiochus in 160 BCE. “That’s what Chanukah means to me,” he said, adding: “And when I hear Wal-Mart greeters wishing me a Happy Holiday instead of a lichtegeh and freilichin Chanukah, it makes me so angry.”As he and Stewart burst into laughter, along with the audience, Colbert repeated the Yiddish phrase for good measure, noting: “Is that so hard?”Said Stewart: “It puts a smile on my pupik.”And no doubt on Dauber’s as well, always happy to spread the message that Yiddish is alive and well.
Monday, December 25, 2006
Merry ChristmaKwanzaaKah to all!
Hey Everyone!
How were the the Holidays? I will share my holiday experience: My first half of Chanukkah I was in school half day then enjoying all the family gatherings at 5500 in Boro Park then Teusday night the 5th nite of the Holiday I went to the Colel Chabad dinner I had a great time, I even brought along two of my "supporters" , my two frinds from school! ;-) I then took a ride with them back to their house in Monsey cause we were gonna go on our Hanukkah Vacation Trip which broght us to Postville ,Iowa after 18+ grueling hours of driving we even lirt the Menorah on the way in the car! they were afraid to light in the rest area cause its suspicious terrorist activity we arrived at "home" at 4:00 am so I put them up in Rubashkins Kretchmeh the next day we had Breakfast in the "Postville Castle" HmmmmmHmmm the food was delicious
My Mother asked the boys do you want Meat or Dairy for supper? what an odd question in Iowa we then went to watch the kosher slaughter process
Supper is Served: 12 oz. Club Steak ;-)
Friday: It was really cool we went skeet shooting we used the shotgun that we transported from Monsey
Federal Gun Law click here
Dot Dot Dot
Thank You
Mom and Dad for hosting us in Postville I know it was NOT a real simple Job. The stay was gr8 I'm even considering coming back *Chuckles*
Ta,
your aidel son
Moish
How were the the Holidays? I will share my holiday experience: My first half of Chanukkah I was in school half day then enjoying all the family gatherings at 5500 in Boro Park then Teusday night the 5th nite of the Holiday I went to the Colel Chabad dinner I had a great time, I even brought along two of my "supporters" , my two frinds from school! ;-) I then took a ride with them back to their house in Monsey cause we were gonna go on our Hanukkah Vacation Trip which broght us to Postville ,Iowa after 18+ grueling hours of driving we even lirt the Menorah on the way in the car! they were afraid to light in the rest area cause its suspicious terrorist activity we arrived at "home" at 4:00 am so I put them up in Rubashkins Kretchmeh the next day we had Breakfast in the "Postville Castle" HmmmmmHmmm the food was delicious
My Mother asked the boys do you want Meat or Dairy for supper? what an odd question in Iowa we then went to watch the kosher slaughter process
Supper is Served: 12 oz. Club Steak ;-)
Friday: It was really cool we went skeet shooting we used the shotgun that we transported from Monsey
Federal Gun Law click here
Dot Dot Dot
Thank You
Mom and Dad for hosting us in Postville I know it was NOT a real simple Job. The stay was gr8 I'm even considering coming back *Chuckles*
Ta,
your aidel son
Moish
Memories...
I met Rebbetzin Jungreis over the weekend. I told het that as a kid I remember her coming to South Africa. She replied, yes, Archie Peck used to enjoy bringing her out. Huh? He must have had a crush on her - for I don't recall him sharing similar Torah values to the Rebbetzin. She also remembered Zeide fondly. BTW, for those of you hitting middle age and beyond, she uses a great Plastic Surgeon. Details available upon request.
If a tree falls in the forest...
(SKF writing on Esti's page)
If Levi Yitzchok Gourarie (Sydney) visits Ottawa but doesn't see Parliament or any of the other world-class attractions for which the Nation's Capital (Canada) is famous...does it count as a true visit?
We think not! And therefore insist that he make a (many) return visit in the near future!
Yes, in addition to welcoming her son home for Zois Chanuka, Esti Gourarie (Ottawa)had the singular zechus of entertaining and hosting her nephew - who she had not seen for almost eleven years!
The trip was a huge success. Levi managed to catch up on some sleep - too bad it was while SKF was sharing a Torah thought at the Shabbos table; kept his Chitas schedule - in between rounds of Monopoly - wherein he demonstrated his keen Gourarie business skill...NOT - must come from the Zwiebel gene pool, because he consistently was bankrupt by the end of the game.
At least he could enjoy the wonderful winter sports in Ottawa...Alas, again NOT. For the first time in recorded history, Ottawa did not enjoy a White chogo. It is unseasonably warm and Levikel, the ever ready boy scout (their motto is "be prepared") was even prepared with galoshen...which stood quietly in the corner throughout the trip. In fact, they are still there because in his puzzling rush to escape the tranquility of our Beis Chabad, he left them behind...Just one more thing for me to shlep to Toronto next week.
On the other hand...he ate all his vegetables (okay, we are counting ketchup as a vegetable as well as latkes), went to mikveh each morning and learned two bonus Sichos with his cousin, just because!
A beautiful, gentle and cheinifdike bochur regarding whom his parents are justifiably proud. We are grateful to him for visiting and making our Chanuka even brighter than it already was.
The only one who was not especially enthusiastic about his visit, was Rabbi Bulka. For some reason he has developed a certain wariness about family members and when he heard that Moishele's cousin was coming, memories of Hirshel flashed before his eyes and he cowered in the corner, fearing another encounter with a "Keser zealot"... You will have to ask Hirshel for details.
Anyways, it is time to tidy up and do some work. A good day to all...please offer your feedback...positive reinforcement always prompts more posts.
SKF
If Levi Yitzchok Gourarie (Sydney) visits Ottawa but doesn't see Parliament or any of the other world-class attractions for which the Nation's Capital (Canada) is famous...does it count as a true visit?
We think not! And therefore insist that he make a (many) return visit in the near future!
Yes, in addition to welcoming her son home for Zois Chanuka, Esti Gourarie (Ottawa)had the singular zechus of entertaining and hosting her nephew - who she had not seen for almost eleven years!
The trip was a huge success. Levi managed to catch up on some sleep - too bad it was while SKF was sharing a Torah thought at the Shabbos table; kept his Chitas schedule - in between rounds of Monopoly - wherein he demonstrated his keen Gourarie business skill...NOT - must come from the Zwiebel gene pool, because he consistently was bankrupt by the end of the game.
At least he could enjoy the wonderful winter sports in Ottawa...Alas, again NOT. For the first time in recorded history, Ottawa did not enjoy a White chogo. It is unseasonably warm and Levikel, the ever ready boy scout (their motto is "be prepared") was even prepared with galoshen...which stood quietly in the corner throughout the trip. In fact, they are still there because in his puzzling rush to escape the tranquility of our Beis Chabad, he left them behind...Just one more thing for me to shlep to Toronto next week.
On the other hand...he ate all his vegetables (okay, we are counting ketchup as a vegetable as well as latkes), went to mikveh each morning and learned two bonus Sichos with his cousin, just because!
A beautiful, gentle and cheinifdike bochur regarding whom his parents are justifiably proud. We are grateful to him for visiting and making our Chanuka even brighter than it already was.
The only one who was not especially enthusiastic about his visit, was Rabbi Bulka. For some reason he has developed a certain wariness about family members and when he heard that Moishele's cousin was coming, memories of Hirshel flashed before his eyes and he cowered in the corner, fearing another encounter with a "Keser zealot"... You will have to ask Hirshel for details.
Anyways, it is time to tidy up and do some work. A good day to all...please offer your feedback...positive reinforcement always prompts more posts.
SKF
Sunday, December 24, 2006
A classic....I think
It was an unusually difficult bathtime process , with an unwilling Yehudah. When I finally took him out, he was really angry and shouted " I NEVER WANNA SEE YOU AGAIN FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE!!!". Calmly (proud to say), I answered " Why don't we start with tonight? After we get into pajamas, don't call me or come to me, OK?" Still yelling, Yehudah answers,"FINE, BUT I WANNA START AFTER MY BEDTIME STORY!!!"
Friday, December 22, 2006
Michoeli's Weekly E-mail
Competing with Yourself
A look at the meaning of success.
One of the most significant sources of stress is ‘approval seeking behaviour’. Some of us invest an amazing amount of time and effort impressing others, gaining their approval and avoiding their criticism. How many times a day do we think about what others will think or say about us? The result of this type of behaviour is a life of pressure, where instead of doing good for its own sake, we strive to impress, compete and outdo others building a reputation as good, effective and successful human beings.
It is natural to want to be complimented and to dislike criticism. Ambition, stemming from a healthy level of competition can also be constructive and beneficial. However, when people become dependant on - and almost addicted to - the approval of others, then it is unhealthy and destructive.
Perhaps the source of this unhealthy dependency is the definition of success in our modern society. In today’s world, success is defined by two very external factors. The first is outcome as opposed to effort. If you have invested tremendous effort but not achieved a visible, measurable dramatic outcome you are deemed a failure not a success. The second is progress relative to others. Sadly, achievement is only properly recognised when it is better than someone else’s.
In the last two weeks students around Australia concluded their school year. This week the results for the HSC (High School Certificate) were released. At various prize giving functions, students were awarded for coming top in their subject. At Parliament house students who topped the state in various subjects were honoured in a grand ceremony.
The achievement of these students is certainly amazing and deserving of recognition. But I am always bothered by the absurdity of this system. We send our youth a message that their success is defined by the achievement of others, and not by their intrinsic effort and commitment. In one year of High School the student who scores 93% is awarded for coming top. But in the next year the student who scored 95% is not recognised because someone else scored 97%. Some schools have introduced awards for the “most improved”. But again the message is a distorted one - you cannot be acknowledged for improving unless you improved more than others.
The Jewish definition of success is very different. Firstly, it is not defined by any outcome but rather by effort, hard work and internal improvement and progress. Our tradition states clearly that reward for Torah study is not for those who cover the most material, but rather for those who apply themselves with sweat and toil. Secondly, it is not measured or defined in relation to the success of others. Success is not a competition with others but with oneself. In the Torah context true success is to beat your comfort level – to do a little more than you are used to. True success is about growth relative to yourself- to do better today than yesterday and to improve next week more than this week.
It is possible that the student who scored 85% did so with great effort and hard work. This student might be far more successful than the student who scored 97% primarily because of a G-d given talent. I am not suggesting that we should not strive for excellence and that great results should not be recognized. I am suggesting, however, that we create a culture where people learn to compete with themselves rather than with everyone else, and we find a way of recognizing the true achievers.
So to all those students who worked really hard this year, extending yourself and doing even a littler better than last year: Even though you might not have made it to the top and weren’t called to the stage at prize giving, you are the real heroes of success. Keep it up and Mazel Tov!
Wishing you a Good Shabbos
Rabbi Michoel Gourarie
Bina - Sydney
A look at the meaning of success.
One of the most significant sources of stress is ‘approval seeking behaviour’. Some of us invest an amazing amount of time and effort impressing others, gaining their approval and avoiding their criticism. How many times a day do we think about what others will think or say about us? The result of this type of behaviour is a life of pressure, where instead of doing good for its own sake, we strive to impress, compete and outdo others building a reputation as good, effective and successful human beings.
It is natural to want to be complimented and to dislike criticism. Ambition, stemming from a healthy level of competition can also be constructive and beneficial. However, when people become dependant on - and almost addicted to - the approval of others, then it is unhealthy and destructive.
Perhaps the source of this unhealthy dependency is the definition of success in our modern society. In today’s world, success is defined by two very external factors. The first is outcome as opposed to effort. If you have invested tremendous effort but not achieved a visible, measurable dramatic outcome you are deemed a failure not a success. The second is progress relative to others. Sadly, achievement is only properly recognised when it is better than someone else’s.
In the last two weeks students around Australia concluded their school year. This week the results for the HSC (High School Certificate) were released. At various prize giving functions, students were awarded for coming top in their subject. At Parliament house students who topped the state in various subjects were honoured in a grand ceremony.
The achievement of these students is certainly amazing and deserving of recognition. But I am always bothered by the absurdity of this system. We send our youth a message that their success is defined by the achievement of others, and not by their intrinsic effort and commitment. In one year of High School the student who scores 93% is awarded for coming top. But in the next year the student who scored 95% is not recognised because someone else scored 97%. Some schools have introduced awards for the “most improved”. But again the message is a distorted one - you cannot be acknowledged for improving unless you improved more than others.
The Jewish definition of success is very different. Firstly, it is not defined by any outcome but rather by effort, hard work and internal improvement and progress. Our tradition states clearly that reward for Torah study is not for those who cover the most material, but rather for those who apply themselves with sweat and toil. Secondly, it is not measured or defined in relation to the success of others. Success is not a competition with others but with oneself. In the Torah context true success is to beat your comfort level – to do a little more than you are used to. True success is about growth relative to yourself- to do better today than yesterday and to improve next week more than this week.
It is possible that the student who scored 85% did so with great effort and hard work. This student might be far more successful than the student who scored 97% primarily because of a G-d given talent. I am not suggesting that we should not strive for excellence and that great results should not be recognized. I am suggesting, however, that we create a culture where people learn to compete with themselves rather than with everyone else, and we find a way of recognizing the true achievers.
So to all those students who worked really hard this year, extending yourself and doing even a littler better than last year: Even though you might not have made it to the top and weren’t called to the stage at prize giving, you are the real heroes of success. Keep it up and Mazel Tov!
Wishing you a Good Shabbos
Rabbi Michoel Gourarie
Bina - Sydney
Wednesday, December 20, 2006
Tuesday, December 19, 2006
Monday, December 18, 2006
Fire Alert
Dear Family and Friends: Sh'
Once again this is Shimon invading Esti's blog space because he still can't figure out Avremi's instructions (ok...I didn't actually have the time to try). In any event, that is not the point!
A number of reports suggest that at least one version of the pre-filled glass oil bulbs used for Chanuka licht are defective. Apparently, the glass and/or the metal support for the wick get so hot they melt and spontaneously explode or combust causing a spreading fire c'v', l'a'.
If you are of the post-modern type (i.e., lazy) and eschew measuring out the oil and rolling your own wicks the old fashioned way, I urge you to exercise caution and do not leave the menorah unattended. The attached link is a collection of photos that capture the meltdown. http://s133.photobucket.com/albums/q75/Menorah_fire
A lichtig (in the right sense) Chanuka to you all.
PS for Avremi G.: Avremi, please explain it to me one more time, but email it to my regular address...I think the problem is I don't remember my password...
Once again this is Shimon invading Esti's blog space because he still can't figure out Avremi's instructions (ok...I didn't actually have the time to try). In any event, that is not the point!
A number of reports suggest that at least one version of the pre-filled glass oil bulbs used for Chanuka licht are defective. Apparently, the glass and/or the metal support for the wick get so hot they melt and spontaneously explode or combust causing a spreading fire c'v', l'a'.
If you are of the post-modern type (i.e., lazy) and eschew measuring out the oil and rolling your own wicks the old fashioned way, I urge you to exercise caution and do not leave the menorah unattended. The attached link is a collection of photos that capture the meltdown. http://s133.photobucket.com/albums/q75/Menorah_fire
A lichtig (in the right sense) Chanuka to you all.
PS for Avremi G.: Avremi, please explain it to me one more time, but email it to my regular address...I think the problem is I don't remember my password...
Sunday, December 17, 2006
Friday, December 15, 2006
Michoeli's weekly e-mail
Chanukah Candles and Bushfires
At one time or another we all experience exciting and meaningful events. These are great moments of inspiration and motivation. But often they come and go with little or no effect. How do we absorb these moments, to ensure that they should have a lasting and positive effect?
Tonight the festival of Chanukah begins. Each evening we will kindle the Chanukah candles, adding one flame each day. The flames of the Menorah represent warmth, enthusiasm and passion. But fire is not always positive. This week bushfires are raging throughout Australia causing gross inconvenience, destruction and devastation.
The difference between the two fires can be understood from the biblical story that we will read from the Torah next week. Pharaoh has two dreams. In his first dream seven fat, healthy cows are eaten by seven ugly, thin cows. The dream is then repeated but this time, with ears of corn.
When describing the dream with the cows Pharaoh exclaims: “They came inside them, but it was not apparent that they had come inside them, for their appearance remained as inferior as at first.” What can we learn from the fact that the fat cows had no affect on the thin cows even after they were eaten by them?
The answer lies in the terminology used in the second dream. “Then the thin ears of corn swallowed up the seven good ears…” There are two forms of eating - chewing and swallowing whole. When we break up our food into small pieces through chewing, the surface exposure of the food to body enzymes are increased and the digestion process is that much more effective.
For a special moment to be effective it must be chewed not swallowed. We must take time to reflect on its significance, process its meaning and learn from each detail. In this way we can bond with the experience, grow from it and fully connect with its deeper meaning. If we ‘swallow’ these events whole, they will create huge excitement for a few moments but then disappear leaving us with a sense of emptiness.
A huge bushfire is devastation. A small but meaningful flame added each day is a mitzvah.
Wishing you a Good Shabbos and a Happy Chanukah
Rabbi Michoel Gourarie
Bina - Sydney
At one time or another we all experience exciting and meaningful events. These are great moments of inspiration and motivation. But often they come and go with little or no effect. How do we absorb these moments, to ensure that they should have a lasting and positive effect?
Tonight the festival of Chanukah begins. Each evening we will kindle the Chanukah candles, adding one flame each day. The flames of the Menorah represent warmth, enthusiasm and passion. But fire is not always positive. This week bushfires are raging throughout Australia causing gross inconvenience, destruction and devastation.
The difference between the two fires can be understood from the biblical story that we will read from the Torah next week. Pharaoh has two dreams. In his first dream seven fat, healthy cows are eaten by seven ugly, thin cows. The dream is then repeated but this time, with ears of corn.
When describing the dream with the cows Pharaoh exclaims: “They came inside them, but it was not apparent that they had come inside them, for their appearance remained as inferior as at first.” What can we learn from the fact that the fat cows had no affect on the thin cows even after they were eaten by them?
The answer lies in the terminology used in the second dream. “Then the thin ears of corn swallowed up the seven good ears…” There are two forms of eating - chewing and swallowing whole. When we break up our food into small pieces through chewing, the surface exposure of the food to body enzymes are increased and the digestion process is that much more effective.
For a special moment to be effective it must be chewed not swallowed. We must take time to reflect on its significance, process its meaning and learn from each detail. In this way we can bond with the experience, grow from it and fully connect with its deeper meaning. If we ‘swallow’ these events whole, they will create huge excitement for a few moments but then disappear leaving us with a sense of emptiness.
A huge bushfire is devastation. A small but meaningful flame added each day is a mitzvah.
Wishing you a Good Shabbos and a Happy Chanukah
Rabbi Michoel Gourarie
Bina - Sydney
Thursday, December 14, 2006
Question for blogmaster (Avremi)
Sometimes people comment on old posts. Is there a way of alerting us to the fact that there is a new comment?(flashing icon or something similar?)
A Freilich´n Chanuka to all! Summer Vacation is about to start.........
A Freilich´n Chanuka to all! Summer Vacation is about to start.........
Wednesday, December 13, 2006
Sapnin' Guys
Hello everyone,
I don't think that I'm going to play raquetball this week and Avremi doesnt even let me write about it. I got inspired from the "joke of the day" post.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P_0kBD_4T6o&mode=related&search =
Let me know what you guys think.
MosheG
I don't think that I'm going to play raquetball this week and Avremi doesnt even let me write about it. I got inspired from the "joke of the day" post.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v
Let me know what you guys think.
MosheG
Tuesday, December 12, 2006
Joke of the Day
Most of you know that I have joined Toastmasters International. It is a load of fun and this week as a rookie I volunteered to do the word and joke of the day.(I have already made a toast, been a grammarian and Jan. 9 I give my icebreaker-speech....I think I might be competing with Yossi and his Norwegian choir....incidently HOW IS THAT GOING???? Inquiring minds want to know....are we stilll singing???) What I did not know was that finding an appropriate joke was quite the challenge. Thanks goes to all of you out there who listened to my ganse collection and offered some of your own cherished ones.....most obliging of you!! For those of you who are curious to know which joke got a laugh, here it is!! Sorry I don't know how to make the font smaller. Enjoy!
Esti
P.S. The word I chose was indelible. May we all have a wonderful indelible lichtike Chanuka this year!
Esti
P.S. The word I chose was indelible. May we all have a wonderful indelible lichtike Chanuka this year!
Joke of the Day
Sunday, December 10, 2006
I'm Back
Hello Everyone!
I had a great weekend! Thursday I followed my sceduale and went to play raquetball (michoeli- Dictinary.com should help) with "Uncle Avremi" but this time it was special, we went with "Cousin Levi"! we played a three layer game it was great.
The best moment of the night was when I was tired, and "Uncle Avremi" was also tired, the Score was Avremi:5 Moshe: 13! then 14,then 15 ;-) I won! I won! (Avremi was dreading every minute of it)
That night I slept over at The Gourarie house and woke up bright and early to continue my adventures. Avremi had a rehearsal to attend and he was kind enough to take me along Thank you! I had a great time the music sounded GR8.
I cant wait until next time!
MosheG
I had a great weekend! Thursday I followed my sceduale and went to play raquetball (michoeli- Dictinary.com should help) with "Uncle Avremi" but this time it was special, we went with "Cousin Levi"! we played a three layer game it was great.
The best moment of the night was when I was tired, and "Uncle Avremi" was also tired, the Score was Avremi:5 Moshe: 13! then 14,then 15 ;-) I won! I won! (Avremi was dreading every minute of it)
That night I slept over at The Gourarie house and woke up bright and early to continue my adventures. Avremi had a rehearsal to attend and he was kind enough to take me along Thank you! I had a great time the music sounded GR8.
I cant wait until next time!
MosheG
Friday, December 08, 2006
Have a good Shabos
As I am about to go into Shabbos (always the first in the family) I would like to wish everyone a good shabbos.
Sorry no email this week - i could not get it together.
For those who don't know Yehoshua Kurstag had a fall and broke his elbow (operation sucsessfull BH) We all wish him a Refua Shleima Ukerova.
Michaeli
Sorry no email this week - i could not get it together.
For those who don't know Yehoshua Kurstag had a fall and broke his elbow (operation sucsessfull BH) We all wish him a Refua Shleima Ukerova.
Michaeli
Wednesday, December 06, 2006
Rochel Leah's Newsflash
For all of you out there who want to wish Rochel-Leah a refua shlaima....she is having all four wisdom teeth extracted on Thursday. All good wishes will be most welcome!!!
Telephone calls will be accepted on Friday!!
Esti
Telephone calls will be accepted on Friday!!
Esti
Monday, December 04, 2006
Shabbos on campus
hello I hope everyone had a wonderful weekend. We spent with the Chein family at Brandeis University. It was a very inspiring Shabbos. They had about 120 students over for the night meal and they all seem to love and look up to Peretz and his wife Chanie. Their son was Getzys age and also woke up at the unG-dly hour of 6 , the two really hit it off. On Sunday we took Getzy and Baby Hindy to the Childrens Museum in Boston, it was amazing. Well back to the grind, have a great week. The Rubashkins
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